My husband and I moved from Michigan to Oklahoma about five years ago; at the time we were living in a townhouse/condo in Michigan and I loved it. It was across the street from our church which I adored and I was very connected to; in church, bible studies, and small groups. My husband had retired from his job of 23 years and thought he would find another job easily but at the age of 58, it was far from the case. A headhunter called him while we were at supper one Friday night and asked if he would be interested in a position in Oklahoma; he said yes, that they could submit his resume and application since it was a temporary assignment and nothing had been fruitful in his look in Michigan. They told him then that they had already submitted him and they wanted him to start the very next Monday. Within thirty minutes…our life changed dramatically; he thought for the best, but I was selfish and thought otherwise. He flew to Oklahoma on Sunday evening; just 48 hours after re...